There are so many factors that play into a decision to a change of address, but the most significant is overcoming fear of change. I often hear from my clients that they know the time is coming to find a new home that fits who they are today, but just can’t go beyond that feeling of dread when entertaining the thought of moving.

Let’s go deeper. Many of you have been in your current homes for many years. I’ve helped clients that were still living in their childhood home. More than one of my seniors were living in that same home for over 70 years, and they braved the move and never looked back. Often when I first visit my clients, I see in their eyes a ‘deer in headlights’ look. The face of… fear of change. We often wrap that fear in more surface concerns such as, what to do with all of the ‘treasures’ we have accumulated over the years? Then there is the worry about the new home, especially if the move is into a senior community or apartment. Will I be happy? Will I make a mistake? Can I afford it? All understandable!

We are all creatures of habit. We get up each day hoping for status quo with our health, our money , and our living space. Our DNA is wired to alert us to danger moving us to safer ground to avoid injury or accident. Change of our habitat is one of those actions that can send us into confusion and fear. Out of that fear comes procrastination. Putting off today what you can worry about tomorrow. However, that out of mind, out of sight works in certain areas of our lives. But when it comes to our well-being both physically and mentally, it Is imperative to take account of your current situation. When it comes to our homes, be honest about your ability to maintain your current surroundings. Are you having issues with stairs? Is your home too costly to maintain? Do you feel safe? Are you facing isolation? These are all important aspects of your life that should be addressed before a sudden change can happen, such as a health change, fall, or financial concerns.

The good news is that the equity in your home has probably doubled since the great recession. That money can be used to help facilitate a move to a better fit as to who you are today. Of course, there are other options for your future, such as in-home care, modification to the home itself and other updates needed to address and physical limitations. The main point I am making is to be honest as to who you are today, and to make an honest assessment of your current surroundings.

Know that there are so many services available today that can help facilitate a move. I work with downsizing companies that will pack, sort, and help to guide you as to where your personal property will go. Often, my clients lean to donation so that others can use today what you have forgotten as storage. One of my clients gave me the saying, “do your givin’ while you are livin’ so you are knowin’ where it’s goin’. Another told me, “When in doubt, throw it out!”. There is also a company I refer clients to that will help find the right placement to a senior community based on your finances and current health needs.

So, you see, the path to a successful life belongs to you. We only have one life to live, and each moment is precious. Take account of your health, your home, and your general well-being. Know that there is help out there if you ask for it. The equity in your home has peaked, leaving all homeowners with choices we didn’t think possible just a few years ago!